Friday, December 24, 2021

The Eve of the Nativity (Christmas Eve), Year C (2021

Isaiah 9:2 – 7 / Psalm 96 / Luke 2:1 – 20

This is the homily given at St. John’s, Huntingdon, Pennsylvania by Fr. Gene Tucker on Friday, December 24, 2021.

“THE CHRISTMAS STORY: A LOVE STORY”

(Homily text: Luke 2:1 – 20)

It can be refreshing and helpful to step back from a very familiar story in order to ask ourselves, “What is the basic message or truth that we’re supposed to glean from this?”

The Christmas story, familiar to most of us who’ve had any experience with the Church or with the Bible (OK, I admit there are fewer people who fall into one or both of those two categories these days than there might have been in times past) know the basics of the story, either from Matthew’s account or from Luke’s account. It’s Luke’s account which we are hearing and considering tonight.

What’s going on with these accounts of Jesus’ birth?

I think, if we try to see some unifying message, it would be that this is, at its most basic truth, a love story. A love story about God’s love for the world He created and which He sustains, and a love story about human beings, whom He also created and with whom He wants to have a deep, enduring and intense love relationship.

Love.

It might be a good idea for us to consider just what love is, for I think, in this present age, the concept of love and the ways we might expect to experience it, need a bit of refreshing, a step back, if you will, to see just what love really is.

When we think about love, perhaps we think of it as an emotion, as when a person loves another person, for example. And, in truth, when our culture thinks about love, it’s likely that it’s romantic love that’s in view. But, in truth, love isn’t just an emotion, love is really a force, a powerful force that can change things. For example, consider a spouse who’s caring for their partner who is very sick…that spouse might well do extraordinary things to support that other, beloved one who’s in deep need. That sort of love is a force, a powerful agent for making things better, for improving the life of another.

Oftentimes, in our culture today, we equate love with permissiveness, as if to characterize it by saying, “If you really love me, you’ll let me do whatever I feel like doing”. But if we really and truly love someone, we might want to reach out to them to correct something they’re doing that is harmful to themselves and perhaps to others. This sort of love sets limits that seek that loved person’s ultimate welfare and wellbeing. An example might be the parent or grandparent who makes comments about a new driver in the family whose behavior behind the wheel is dangerous to themselves and to others. Saying such things oftentimes isn’t easy to have to say, or easy to have to hear. But true love seeks the best for that other, loved person, simply because we want the very best for the other.

If we consider what we’ve just said, we might boil this definition of love into two themes: 1. Love is a force for change, and 2. Love seeks the best for that other, beloved one.

Now, let’s apply these two observations to the Christmas event.

First of all, we might say that God, in sending His only Son, Jesus Christ, sent Him into the world to be a force for change. By His life, Jesus showed us the way that God wants us to live and love. That sort of love meant that God would have to come into the world and assume our humanity to the full. As Jesus lived among us, as a full and complete human being, He experienced all the things we human beings are able to experience, including not just the “good stuff” of things like wonderful and fulfilling relationships with others, but the “bad stuff” of suffering, disappointment, rejection and death.

In sending Jesus Christ to live among us, God’s intent is to show us the way to live that brings about full, complete and true happiness and joy. In so doing, God demonstrated to us that the true meaning of love means that there are things God would want us to be doing, and things He would warn us not to do. There are limits involved in this sort of love, limits that can protect us from things that can separate us from each other and from God.

Considering this business of love, consider what people who do not know anything (much) about the Church might think that the Church stands for. Perhaps the answer would be that people outside the Church might think that the Church is a place where hate is preached and practiced.

But the Church’s business, its reason for being, its mission, is to be a place where love, true, abiding and lasting love, is preached and practiced. The Church is in the “Love business”. The Church is a place where the goal is to introduce God to people and people to God, and to nourish that relationship in love.

That’s why we’re here tonight, to hear about God’s love story, God’s intense, deep, abiding love for the world and the people who live in it. The Christmas story invites each of us to a deeper, more intense loving relationship with the Lord, to return to the Lord the great gift of love He has for us by loving Him in return, and to make that love known to an unloving and oftentimes cruel world by the things we say and the things we do.

AMEN.